The Vicarious Trauma Institute in Scottsdale, Arizona is collecting traumatizing experiences from helpers. Please help us build a healthier environment for those who give of themselves to others. Your stories will serve as data so that we can continue to address the cost of caring.
If you wish to remain anonymous, we respect your right to do so. If not, feel free to email us at info@vicarioustrauma.com. We always respect your privacy and we never share or sell email lists with anyone.
Ellie & Vicki
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I just found this and think it is wonderful that finally there is a place to talk about the upset that I feel every day. I'll be back.
I am a family therapist. After viewing your website, I believe I may have Vicarious Trauma. I suffer with insomnia and emotional numbing. My family life has really been impacted by my lack of presence! I wonder how many others can do great work for other families, but are unavailable for their own. Thanks for the help.
Practicing family law has been far more stressful than I've ever imagined. I have heard some really ugly stories. The worst part of it all is that, in so many ways, I feel powerless to help. I have become so cynical over the years and now I realize that it is probably due to Vicarious Trauma. I can't wait to read your book!
I hope our colleagues in the helping professions will reach out and be heard about the hazards of helping. We can only raise social consciousness by speaking out for each other!
As a RN working with the geriatric population I encounter traumatic events on a regular basis. The worst was when one of my clients committed suicide while his caregiver went to get he and his wife lunch. He just got tired of being sick and taking care of his wife. I have never forgotten that day and the "second-hand shock" that I still have.
For the RN:
That is one awful story! That type of trauma stays with you forever. You need to give yourself the gift of debriefing whenever you can. Please continue to use our blog to externalize the shocking stories. That is a powerful first step in reconnecting to the power of your higher mind to calm the rest of you down. We have heard similar stories of the infirm committing suicide and understand how devastating these experiences are to the helper. Thank you for your precious service. Please take care of yourself.
Ellie and Vicki
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